A Plea for Brandy

I’m a little angsty this week for reasons too long and self indulgent to bore you with.  Blame it on spending Christmas away from my family.  Blame it on chemo brain.  Blame it on the economy.  Blame it on Rod Stewart.  Whatevs.  The point is, I read the post below and got all kinds of sentimental and weepy.  So now I’m going to make you sentimental and weepy, too.  Suck it.

Call me a big douchey hippie, but I really do think this will make a difference.  I’m all about the power of positive thought, and I’m grateful every single day for the never ending outpouring of love I received when I was diagnosed.  So if you have a few minutes today, how about sending some happy, healing thoughts to Brandy and her boy, k?  I’ll owe you a margarita.

Also, If you haven’t followed @DrewFromTV on Twitter, please do before the end of 2009.  $1 goes to Livestrong for every follower.  See?  You can do two wonderful things today to fight cancer without spending a dime!  Who needs resolutions when you have me to nag you into helping kick cancer’s ass?

My name is brandy. And I have a blog.

And a plea.

I use my blog to showcase the crazy I meet everyday, share the stories of the kids I teach and document my love for tequila, dairy products and the abdominal muscles of Ryan Reynolds. Rarely do I talk about personal issues on my blog- as personal as the dude that I adore (who I actually met through my blog- single ladies, let that be a very good reason to blog, the possibility of meeting someone as wonderful as my man), but I need your help. And it involves my dude.

He’s a guy who made math comics for my class, so they would love learning about addition. He’s the kinda guy who sends my friends gift cards when they are having hard times, who remembers every story I ever told him, who was the first person I celebrated with when I got a teaching job. He’s the guy who sent flowers to me at school- dozens of my favourite pink roses just because he loves me. He’s a guy who has spent a year patiently explaining (and re-explaining) everything there is to know about football during the important games when silence is preferred. He’s made me word puzzles and comics and stayed up late playing Scrabble with me (even though I beat him almost every time). He’s listened to me cry about school and family and jobs. He is everything I never knew I needed and everything I always knew I wanted.

The holidays have hit us hard. He’s recently been told he may have something called multiple myeloma- an incurable cancer, that gives a person an average of five years of continued life. Though this news has came as a shock, he continues to be exactly who has always been- spending his time worrying about me, rather than worrying about himself. He’s the most selfless individual I know- (he stayed late on Christmas Eve to work, so his co-workers could leave early) and a post like this would never be something that he would promote or encourage but when I’m overwhelmed and feeling helpless, the blogging community has always given me tremendous support and comfort, two things I desperately need at this time.

As I write this, the future is uncertain and we aren’t sure what’s happening. He’ll need to see an oncologist soon, to verify what’s going on in his body. My hope is that everyone who reads this think positive thoughts and if you are a person who prays, could you add him to your list? (You can refer to him as ‘brandy’s hot awesome dude’). If you don’t pray, please keep him in your heart.This cancer is only a possibility and I believe that the prayers and positive thoughts of people can make sure it never becomes a reality.

I want to give a big thank you to the blog owner who scraped their original blog plans and graciously put this up. My goal is to get as many people as possible to see and read this post. If you are reading this and want to help, copy and paste my plea into your blog or send a link through twitter, so more people can keep him in their thoughts. I would be so very grateful (even more grateful than I am to my friend who first showed me the picture of Ryan Reynolds on the cover of Entertainment Weekly. If you haven’t seen it, google it. You. Are. Welcome).

I realize this all sounds dramatic, a Lifetime movie in the making- but this is life. Right now. And I’m throwing away any hint of ego and am humbly asking for you to pray or think kind thoughts. If you are able to pass this on, thank you and if you know anything regarding MM- please email me (my email is on my blog). This isn’t a call for sympathy or a plea for pity. It’s just one girl hoping you can think positive thoughts for the person she adores. If my current heartache provides you with anything, let it be with the reminder that life is short, love is unbending and no one knows what could happen next. Maybe it is silly, but I really do believe that positive thoughts can make a huge difference. Thank you for reading this and if you haven’t already? Please tell someone you love them today.

I did.


  1. I think a lot of people automatically assume that it’s a trick to make you follow Drew Carey. Funny how we care so much about something that doesn’t really hurt us. I’ve sent a tweet out and I hope some people follow, the number’s looking pretty sad right now, but look it up if your skeptical.

    It’s not silly at all to think that positive thinking helps. It always helps.

    You’re a saint.
    .-= KeepingYouAwake´s last blog ..The Other Side of Christmas =-.

    1. Well, it IS a trick to make you follow Drew Carey, but it still raises money for Livestrong so it’s a small price to pay, eh? Saint? Me? Now THAT’s funny. [Cue lightening bolts.]

  2. Good God I’m verklempt now! I am demanding positive thoughts from my brain for this guy and his sweet blogging girlfriend. May everyone find someone who sends pink roses and explains football!
    .-= Kelly´s last blog ..What Happened To You? =-.

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